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I hesitate to write this. Not because it isn’t worth saying, but because I’m still child-rearing in the church myself. And I know the last thing a child-rearing adult wants is uninvited attention on what their kids are doing. So, parents and caregivers, let me be clear from the start: this is written with overflowing gratitude and respect—from your senior pastor and fellow child-rearer. Lately I’ve found myself admiring the church we are growing into. I see it on Sunday mornings. I know that what happens in our classrooms is deeply formational. I see it in the kids who show up week after week. IRead More →

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Recently our worship planning team gathered around the zoom screen to dream about Holy Week and Easter. There were calendars and hymnals, half-formed ideas and bold ones. We asked the usual questions, how might this idea work? How might this year be experiential, not just something we watch but something we step into? Spoiler alert: it’s going to be very experiential this year. And here’s the double spoiler, we’re ending Easter morning singing the Hallelujah Chorus with choir, organ, and string quartet! I love that one. It’s a favorite for many of us. When I was growing up, my home church sang it a fewRead More →

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Over the past few weeks, I’ve had several people ask me some version of this question: “Pastor, someone I care about, someone I’ve been at odds with for a long time, is suddenly questioning or shifting their hard position. How do I engage without telling them, ‘I told you so’?” I admire such honest questions and the care for another person in them, but I’ll admit there is a small, self-satisfied part of us that wants to win the moment. We have carried conviction. We have endured disagreement. We have sometimes felt dismissed. And now, suddenly, the ground is moving. So, what do we doRead More →

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Back in seminary, I was pretty focused. I wanted to finish in the standard three years, which meant electives were precious. I only had space for one elective in the New Testament and one in the Old Testament. So, when a new professor, Dr. Gambrell, offered his first class on the Psalms, my friends were excited. Dr. Gamble was just a few years older than we were. He helped lead chapel, wrote prayers, designed worship, and had that rare combination of intellect and creativity that made him, well, kind of cool. A few friends encouraged me to take the class with them. I remember thinking,Read More →

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Our 2026 Confirmation journey is officially underway, and already our time together is being shaped by patient community-building, exploration, and service. This year’s class includes twelve students from across our Fox Valley United Methodist connection, with four of those confirmands coming from UMCG (Cameron, Ella, Katie, & Nate). Students bring with them different churches, schools, experiences, and perspectives and while that variety doesn’t instantly turn into easy conversation, it is becoming opportunity to learn one another’s names, stories, and begin building community. Part of our early work together is simply helping students feel comfortable enough to talk (sometimes with a little encouragement), listen well, laugh together, and begin toRead More →

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Last week I blogged about some of my internal struggles. (I promise I don’t want this space to become my public therapy journal). But I’ve also been noticing a tension through pastoral conversations that many of us seem to be living in lately.  It’s that strange in-between season. The betwixt and between. The moment when you get bad news… and then still laugh to the point of tears in conversation with a friend. When you’re crying over the world and still manage to stand in awe at nature.  Sometimes the ache is personal, like a diagnosis, a loss, and a hard decision. Other times, it’s the kind of ache we absorb just by reading the news: war, disaster, political chaos, injustice. And yet, not everything is terrible. That’s part of the tension, too.  We live inRead More →

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Over the last few weeks, I’ve felt a growing pressure, mostly internal, but now also external, to say something about what’s happening in the streets of Minneapolis. The images are horrifying. The headlines can be numbing. The enforcement tactics being used against protesters who are exercising what I thought were clearly protected First and Second Amendment rights are deeply troubling to me. In fact, I find many of the tactics deployed in American streets and communities flat out morally repugnant. My civics and social studies teachers would be proud (or horrified) that I recognize what’s happening as a full-on cheese-grater to the Constitution shredding ourRead More →

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This week’s holiday called us to remember the life and witness of Rev. Dr. Martin Luther King Jr. and yet, if we’re honest, for many of us it often passes as little more than a day off work or school. Remembering Dr. King in ways that truly engage his faith, courage, and challenge to the church takes more intention than simply marking a date on the calendar or sharing a quote. And at the same time, our church continues in our sermon series The Courage to Follow. Now, I must be honest, the holiday overlap was not part of the plan. And yet, as I reflected on writing thisRead More →

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When I chose the date for our Foundations & Futures Luncheon on January 7, I knew from the start that not everyone who loves this church would be able to attend. That’s simply the reality of full calendars and faithful lives. So, if you weren’t there, please know this first: you were missed, you are valued, and the heart of what we shared belongs to you too.  Now earlier this week we shared part of what happened that afternoon: a first look at the 1874 Project. That work matters deeply. Caring for our building is essential to our witness, our accessibility, and our ability to serve generations to come. But as important as bricks and budgets are, we know they are not the whole story. Read More →

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As we step into a new year together, we are beginning a six-week journey exploring what it means to live with Gospel-shaped courage.  Not the kind of courage rooted in bravado or swagger, but the quiet, faithful bravery of living day by day in and with God’s love. This is courage that rarely announces itself. It grows slowly. It takes shape over time as we learn who we are and as we help one another live from that truth.  Throughout this series, The Courage to Follow: From Baptism to the Cross, we’ll explore courage not as fearlessness or control, but as faithful resilience. Each week will invite usRead More →